If you’re in a bad way at the moment and it seems as though everything you try fails when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back, it may be time to change your approach a little. It may even be time to start getting a little aggressive in your tactics.
One of the reasons you ex girlfriend may not be responding to your charms is because she knows that you are going to be there for her if she decides that she wants you in the future. She has placed you on a shelf for safe keeping for use at a later date. Yes, that sounds a little manipulative, but it is probably very close to the truth. If you have done something that upset her, or if she simply got bored, she pulled the plug – but in her mind, she always has you in reserve.
If you are going a little crazy and you keep sending her messages, professing your undying love for her, you are giving her even more power to manipulate you. This desperate behavior is just proof that she has you whenever she needs you. But what if she didn’t have you? What if you showed her that you refuse to be tucked away for a later date? That is where your methods are going to start changing. You are going to be navigating uncharted waters for a while.
The first thing you are going to want to do is get a makeover so that you are looking your best. Make sure they see this new you. Next, make sure that they see you enjoying your newly found freedom. Get together with friends and live like you’re single again. You can bet that this is going to take some wind out of their sails in no time flat.
It is important that this look genuine, even if you are still aching to have them back. You must make it look like you are getting on with your life. You may even arrange to meet your ex just to let them know that there are no hard feelings and that you wish them the best.
The result of all this may be profound. Don’t be surprised if she takes it upon herself to give you a phone call out of the blue. After all, once you lose something, you may realize how valuable it was in the first place.