It does sound crazy, doesn’t it? All you want is to be with your ex again, and you are getting advice to have no contact with your ex at all. Well, as idiotic as it may seem to you, when you know just how the no contact rule works, then you will realize just how well it will work for you.
You see, you and your ex were together for a long time. You had so much fun together and got to know each other very well. You got used to certain little things that you used to say and do for each other, were there to support each other whenever there was some sort of crisis, and now this is all gone. Your relationship came to an abrupt end because of a stupid argument, and both of you are now very, very lonely.
Now, just as much as you are yearning to see and be with your ex again, I can tell you that your ex is probably feeling exactly the same way. This is great, because, as cruel as it may seem, applying the no contact rule now will produce the very effect that you need to get your ex back.
Have no contact whatsoever with your ex at all. Don’t call, send text messages emails, and, above all, don’t speak to your friends about your ex at all. Obviously they are going to ask you how you feel about your ex now that your relationship has ended, but say nothing. Simply shrug your shoulders and say that the relationship is history, and you are now ready to start a new life.
Of course your ex is going to be grilling your friends about what you have said to them. They will have absolutely nothing to tell your ex, and this is going to bother him/her like crazy.
Just carry on this way – use the no contact rule every day, and sooner or later, the way your ex will be missing you will almost drive him/her insane. Again, this is just the way you want it to be – the no contact rule is working like a charm, and sooner or later you will have your ex making contact with you in desperation to see you again.