Sometimes a woman can lose her confidence when she feels that there is another woman trying to usurp her position and take her man away! This fear of losing her man makes her behave in an uncharacteristic manner. She could end up looking desperate and cause her man to lose interest in her. Don’t let this happen to you. Here are some tips you can follow to make sure you act as “cool as a cucumber”.
Be confident of your charms
You should know that you are worth your man’s love and attention. Don’t be afraid of coming across as someone less worthy! Know your plus points and assets and be proud of them. This way you will flaunt your talents and gifts and make others green with envy!
Don’t become insecure when there are other women around
Just because she looks and dresses better than you, does not mean that you should feel insecure and miserable. Never forget that your man has fallen in love with you because of certain traits and qualities he has seen and admired in you. Just pretty looks and great style should not be a threat to you.
Don’t act childish and immature
It is important to act your age. If you act in a childish and immature manner then your man will tend to compare you with others and you won’t pass the test! Make sure you are at your best. This will make him admire you and be proud that you belong to him. He should want to show you off!
Stop trying to cling to your guy
The moment you cling to your man and hang on to him it shows that you don’t trust his feelings for you. By keeping him at your side and holding on to him desperately you have betrayed your doubts about the depth of his feelings for you. Don’t reveal your fears in any way and look confident of your relationship.
Don’t sulk or act moody
The moment you get into one of your famous moods you will spoil things for yourself. Your man will soon begin to recognize your moods and begin to resent your behavior. Not only will he try to escape but he will also become angry and disappointed that you are not in control of your emotions.
Don’t be afraid of being yourself
The best way to make your man fall completely in love with you is to be yourself. Don’t try to pretend and be someone you are not just so that you can hold his attention. Sooner or later your true colors will show and he will get disappointed with you. If you are being a fake you will automatically act needy around him.
Don’t beg him to pay you attention
If you are not confident of your relationship you will automatically look desperate! Don’t beg your guy to give you attention. This might make him treat you like a doormat or bully you. Besides everyone around will begin to pity you! Ignore him and treat him in the same way – it will make him more attentive and loving towards you.